| 释义 |
看人下菜碟兒 kàn rén xià cài dié ér
基本出处
dialect to treat sb according to their social status；relationship with them etc idiom；not to treat everyone equally favorably比喻待人因人而异。变体看人下菜碟儿清·曹雪芹《红楼梦》第六十回：“我家里下三等奴才也比你高贵些的，你都会看人下菜碟儿。宝玉要给东西，你拦在头里，莫不是要了你的了？拿这个哄他，你只当他不认得呢！” |