释义 |
外剛內柔 wài gāng nèi róu 基本出处 soft on the inside despite one's hard shell;appearing tough on the outside as to mask one's inner vulnerability;also written 內柔外剛|内柔外刚nèi róu wài gāng变体外刚内柔宋·吴曾《能改斋漫录·议论》:“兵戈既起,将帅擅权,武吏功臣,过求姑息。边蕃远郡,得以骄矜,外刚内柔,上陵下替,此为屈辱又非多乎?” |