self-control competence 基本例句 自制力 In the heat of the argument I lost my self- control.在激烈的争论中，我失去了自制力。 Susan married a man who appeared to be unemotional and self - possessed but who turned out to have a soft centre.苏珊嫁给了一个看起来冷漠有自制力的男人，可没想到他原来是一个软心肠呢。